Trying to keep the rubber side down

Avoid the “Nay” Sayers

You know what I’m talking about and if you’re reading this you also know if you’re one of them. The “Nay” sayers.  People who always seem to have a negative response to anything you say or do. Like any idea they didn’t come up with isn’t going to work and they bring all the negative comments to the table before you’ve even completed a sentence.  Yeah, you know who you are.

These type people can seriously affect your own mood or attitude if you let them.  I’ve ran into a few of these “special” people in my life. You have the types who have their head so far up their own butts that they think their crap doesn’t stink and anything they say is gold.  Or the ones who can never do anything wrong and everything is someone else’s fault and they have all the bad luck, blah blah blah. I know bad things happen to good people but no one is that unlucky and if bad things just keep happening to you it’s time to take a serious look at your life and where you’re headed.

I’m not going to let these types of people bring me down.  When you have a dream or an idea that’s bigger than yourself don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t do it or that the idea isn’t going to work or it’s too hard and too much work.  I’m tired of the negative attitudes and the down in the dump moods.  Some people are so upset on the direction of their own lives that it actually makes them feel better to bring you down a notch.  I’ve always thought that if you didn’t like the situation you’re in, well then change it.  No one has the power to do it for you.  Take the wheel and drive your own life and stop trying to control how others are driving and decide what lane you want to be in.  If not, get out of my way with your comments and the “I deserve everything” attitude.  I don’t have time for it, move aside.  I’m staying focused on my family and loved ones. They have my best interests at heart and theirs are in mine.  How it should be.  The Negative Nancy’s and Debbie Downers can all go live on an island together for all I care.  At least they’ll have something in common.

K, I’m done bitching :)

“Mantenha o lado da borracha para baixo”

3 responses

  1. Mom

    Yea, what he said!

    September 1, 2010 at 10:17 AM

  2. Adrian

    Bitch boy, bitch all you want….lol…I have to second that.
    Go live your life, I mean it’s “your” life right?!
    Do it all man, d-o -i-t a-l-l!!!!!
    Take care!!

    September 1, 2010 at 1:45 PM

  3. Denise

    I agree — we all make our own lives — if you don’t like it — only you can change it — no one else has control over your life — good or bad. You either get the credit or the fault for your life being wonderful or sucky! Deal with it!

    September 2, 2010 at 7:22 PM

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